Monthly Archives: December 2012

3 Reasons Why Being Unemployed During the Holidays Has Been a Blessing

Reason #1: I realize how fortunate I still am.
So many people, in this country and across the world, still have less than me. My wife and I were able to pay our bills this month and were still able to get the kids presents for Christmas.

And as cliche and trite as it may sound, we all still have our health. Sometimes, that’s overlooked.

Reason #2: I can put in extra time into the relationships that matter to me.
My faith, my wife and my kids are all important to me and I get to spend extra time with them during the holidays. That’s not awful.

Reason #3: I have time to obtain career perspective.
What do I want to do now? What matters to me when it comes to employment? These are questions I’m spending a lot of time thinking about so that when I move on to the next opportunity, it’ll be the right one.

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You can tell a lot about someone by where they park


I went to my son’s school early the other morning before school started to help set up for an event. I was pulling in just as the teachers and other staff were arriving for the day and I noticed something interesting. Most of the teachers and staff were parking in spaces right in front of the main doors. However, one person wasn’t. She parked almost as far away from the main doors as she could get. I thought she might be heading for an alternative entrance, but as she got out of her car, she proceeded to walk towards the main entrance.

Growing up, my dad would park at the back end of the parking lot because he didn’t want anyone parking by his truck and scratching his paint job. But that wasn’t the case here because her car isn’t anything special.

Look, I know this isn’t a huge deal but it really tells you a lot about someone. What she’s saying is that she’d rather someone else have a spot by the front doors because she doesn’t mind walking a little further.

Little things like this can reveal a lot about someone.

Looking for Work


Well, it finally happened. It took longer than I thought – about a week – but I was finally hit with the realization that I’m unemployed, again.

This feeling isn’t new. I was laid-off at the beginning of the recession in 2008. Since then, I’ve had three different jobs for three different employers. Some of those jobs I left voluntarily, some of them I didn’t. The feeling eventually hits you, it’s just a matter of when.

Whether you were fired, laid-off, or you quit, the important thing is to learn from the experience. Take away the good and the bad and become a better person for it. Secondly, approach finding the next job as if it were a job. But don’t just apply for jobs, network too. Sometimes the best job isn’t obtained because you applied for it. You might even have to spend money to make money.

If you’re in the same boat as me, good luck. Oh, and don’t settle. Find more than your next job, find your career.

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Spend money to make money – even if you don’t have a job!


When you don’t have a job it can be tough to spend money. But any successful business person will tell you, you have to spend money to make money. So, ask a professional contact out to coffee and offer to pay. Buy a beer for someone in your field and ask them questions about how to advance your career. You could even ask them if they’d be willing to introduce you to a colleague of theirs.

The toughest decisions are made when money is tight. Ask Kellogg. They chose to spend money during the Great Depression and ending up besting C.W. Post during and after that time.

I’m not at all suggesting you should be reckless with your money, but if you are smart and faithful, you’ll be successful in the end.

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